com·pas·sion. Noun: Sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others

I have recently made what may well turn out to be one of the best decisions of my life. I am sponsoring a child.
I am paying £21 pounds a month so that a little boy in Burkina Faso can have a chance at making a better life for himself. So that he can be educated and equipped with the skills and opportunities he needs to break free from poverty.  It's not just his life my £21 will change, but the lives of his whole family and the lives of the next generation too. It is mind-blowing that I, an unremarkable student from Surrey with a penchant for over-priced coffee, can make a difference to a community of people who are so  full of potential but just haven't been given the opportunities that I take for granted.
The little boy I am sponsoring is only five at the moment but I look forward to watching him grow into a young person who is educated, who knows he is loved and valued and who has ambitions to change his world for the better. Who knows, maybe he would have managed this without my £21 anyway, but it's a small price to pay (7 caramel macchiatos... yes I worked it out!) to help him along his way.

I am sponsoring him through a Christian organisation called Compassion (http://www.compassionuk.org/) they have centres in many of the poorest communities across the globe where children have access to health care and nutritional supplements, educational opportunities and social and emotional care.

I don't think it's fair that some children are born into this world with few opportunities and little hope for the future, we have everything here we could ever need - money, security, an education - but what do we do with it? In my case I moan about uni work and sit in cafes drinking caramel macchiatos... what a waste.

The video below is of Patrick Regan visiting compassion projects in Bolivia, but if you look on youtube there are so many more, each telling the story of a community which has been transformed by a few people and their £21.

The return of afternoon tea.

Is it just me, or is there an abundance of vintage-style teacups and cupcake paraphernalia in the shops at the moment? This can mean only one thing - afternoon tea is back! Hurrah! Wave goodbye to coffee mornings and afternoon frappacinos and go buy yourself a teapot.

2011's afternoon teas are super-sweet, preferably al fresco and involve a lot of florals. Here is my checklist for throwing the perfect afternoon tea:

• Mismatched vintage teacups and saucers (try charity shops or ebay for these or get new vintage-style lones from http://www.dotcomgiftshop.com/)

• A teapot (because, lets be honest, proper tea needs one)

http://www.dotcomgiftshop.com/search/content/teapot

• Cute gingham or floral tablecloth (ooh maybe some bunting too?)

http://www.cottonbunting.co.uk/acatalog/copy_of_Shades_of_floral_bunting.html

• Cupcakes (for extra cute-factor get a stand too)



Wilton 307-831 13 Count Cupcake Stand

• And proper tea (none of this green stuff!)

Taa Daa! Now you have an afternoon tea perfect for catching up with good friends, or celebrating something fabulous. 

If you prefer to let someone do the hard work for you, here are my fave afternoon tea venues:

• The Grand Hotel, Eastbourne http://www.grandeastbourne.com/dining-afternoon-tea.html
• Browns (here you can opt for a G&T instead of tea - I know... genius!) http://www.browns-restaurants.co.uk/locations/bristol/menus/food/pudding-afternoon-tea-0211/
• Boston Tea Party http://www.bostonteaparty.co.uk/

My fashiony friend...

If you liked my post on cute fabric noticeboards, you should definitely check out my friend Clare's blog. She is a fashion design student and 'The world through creative specs' is packed full of creative designs and beautiful photos. I find her fashion wish lists are pretty spot on too.

Blog: http://clareyp.blogspot.com/

Website: http://clarepowell.yolasite.com/

SUCH a cute panda print!
(Image belongs to Clare Powell - not to be used without permission)

Motel really does rock.

Gypsy Jumpsuit in tropical Hawaii

I LOVE the new Motel Rocks Colour Pop Collection. It is making me long for poolside bars and beachside cafes! Unfortunately I am going to the Isle of Mull for 2 weeks with my family - so I'm not sure dresses like these will be entirely called-for. But if you are going away this summer somewhere that experiences more than 3 days of sunshine a year - rock the Colour Pop look for me? thanks.

Beth dress in Peacock with black lace detail

Limited edition Lesley - red and twilight blue

You can get them all at: www.motelrocks.com

And may I suggest continuing the trend with your nail varnish? Models Own and Barry M both do great ranges of bright colours.

http://www.facebook.com/motelrocks

Sally Anne Pleated Skirt in hot pink

Gypsy Playsuit in Red

Do you brunch?

I am fairly new to the art of brunching, but I have taken to it like the proverbial duck to water. I think, being born and raised in Surrey, on some level I have always been destined to brunch - it was inevitable.

I used to think brunch was just what you called a meal between breakfast and lunch, i.e. if I got up at 11am and ate a kit-kat and a sausage roll - that was brunch. Oh how wrong I was! I have come to realise that a truly fabulous brunch involves a cafe, many cappuccinos, good friends, and can take up to 3 hours. Oh yes, now I've had a taste of proper mid-morning dining I'm never going back.

After trying a few, my favourite venue has to be Cafe Rouge. It is a lot less pretentious than other places I have been to, the prices are reasonable and they have a great selection of British and French inspired breakfast dishes. My favourite is the 'Pain perdu' (French toast topped with strawberries, blueberries and banana with Bonne Maman honey to drizzle) but I have been reliably informed that the Croque Madame is pretty good too.

Pain Perdu

http://www.caferouge.co.uk/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brunch

And if you prefer a DIY brunch: Bubby's Brunch Cookbook: Recipes and Menus from New York's Favorite Comfort Food Restaurant

Bad Science.

This is one of my favourite books of all time, I've been telling friends and family to read it for years but they all seem to be scared off by the fact that it has the word 'Science' in the title. They needn't be worried, Ben Goldacre takes the jargon and confusion out of science, and replaces it with good old fashioned common sense and a bit of logical thinking. I for one am sick of the mess of complicated pseudoscience we are presented with from all angles. Not only does this book blow all that out of the water and explain the real facts behind the headlines but by the end of it you will be able to spot 'bad science' a mile off, which I think is a very good thing.

p.s. I would particularly recommend the chapter on Dr Gillian McKeith if she has ever spoilt your T.V. dinner by poking around in someone's poo.

Here are some other people's thoughts on 'Bad Science':

"Unmissable... laying about himself in a froth of entirely justified indignation, Goldacre slams the mountebanks and bullshitters who misuse science. Few escape: drug companies, self-styled nutritionists, deluded researchers and journalists all get thoroughly duffed up" The Times, Books of the Year

"Hugely entertaining... an essential primer for anyone who has ever felt uneasy about news coverage of faddish scientific "breakthroughs", health scares and "studies have shown" stories - it should be on the national curriculum" Time out

Bad Science: Quacks, Hacks, and Big Pharma Flacks

 And check this out for bad science updates: http://www.badscience.net/

GAPPERS: Back to Basics.

I love this video. The poem is so honest and straightforward, but powerful too.

GAPPERS: Back to Basics.: "This poem was written in a 24-7 prayer room and tries to explain why Jesus died and what His death means. "

Watch it and have a think.

I heart pretty things...

I love my room at uni. In a house where the bin is always overflowing and the kitchen resembles a before shot from 'How clean is your house?' my room is my sanctuary. My favourite thing in my room has to be the lovely fabric noticeboard my Mum made for me over the summer. These seem to have become really popular recently and I can see why. They are a super-pretty way to store all those important notes and to display your favourite photos. I have seen them for over £20 in super-boutiquey shops but as my Mum demonstrated, with a bit of creativity, you can make one for much less than that.

Here is a selection of my faves on sale online :

http://www.amazon.co.uk/green-flower-fabric-notice-board/dp/B002YO6SLU/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=kitchen&qid=1305755556&sr=8-1

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Gisela-Graham-Pink-Fabric-Noticeboard/dp/B0039FLMUU/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1305754620&sr=8-5

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Shabby-Strawberry-Fabric-Kitchen-Noticeboard/dp/B003EH0ADS/ref=sr_1_14?ie=UTF8&qid=1305754620&sr=8-14

And this is what you would need to make one yourself:

• Some mdf
• Wadding
• Pretty fabric of your choice
• Some ribbon
• A staple gun
• And a bit of imagination ;)

Taa daa! The noticeboard in my room.

Cloudspotting...

I read somewhere the other day that the older you get, the more difficult it is for you to see shapes in clouds. This scared me. I don't want to reach a stage when I can't look up at the sky and see an elephant, floating in between Winston Churchill and a pineapple with a suitcase ... that would be terrible.
So I shall practice cloudspotting whenever I can, and I've found a book to inspire me:



A Pig with Six Legs and Other Clouds
"This is a glorious collection of clouds that look like things, including dragons, skateboarders, pasta, witches and poodles. It is a proud celebration of the carefree, aimless and endlessly life-affirming pastime of cloudspotting"

There you go. You didn't know clouds could be life-affirming did you. Well it's true - the cloud appreciation society say so.

http://cloudappreciationsociety.org/

Faith. Hope. LOVE.

These are three short but powerful words; they are what life means to me.

1 Corinthians 13:13 says:
Now three things remain: faith, hope and love...
But the greatest of these is love.

It was at a young age that I came to the conclusion that love was the meaning of life. I still believe it now. It might sound soppy but imagine a world without love; isn't love what makes each day not only bearable but wonderful? Just think about the media, how many of the books we read and movies we watch are about love? Not just the romantic kind but love between brothers, sisters, fellow countrymen, a parent's love for their child. Christian or not, it is clear love means a lot.

But for me, the thing that makes living worthwhile, is not the love of the people in my life but the love of God. Knowing that he loves me so much that he sent his only child to die in my place, that his love is totally unconditional, undeserved, everlasting and perfect.

If you think earthly love brings meaning to life, wait 'till you get a taste of heavenly love - everything changes.

Candy cakes :P

Ok, I know I am an awful blogger - failing to create something that meets even the most basic requirements of a blog (i.e. interesting and with more than 2 posts a year).

However, it's a new year so I shall try again, starting by sharing with you a secret: I know where to get the BEST cupcakes ever. I know, it sounds unbelievable but these aren't even arguably the best cupcakes ever - they are THE best.

http://www.candycakes.com/

Go there. Find out for yourself. Thank me later ;)

That is all.